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Everything before that is considered getting to know each other in a friendly manner.

If you can, you may break off from the group as to only talk with each other. After several outings like this, say five or six, you may ask to do something just the two of you. After spending time together outside of the group for a while, also probably five or six times, one person will confess their love for the other.

This is called “kokuhaku,” and is in most cases done by the man.

I’ve included my thoughts as a Westerner on Japanese dating culture for that reason.

Virgin or veteran, I feel for any Westerner or Easterner who dates or aspires to date inter-culturally this is worth a read. You might just understand the other half a little better after this.

I’m going to start out with a disclaimer: Every person- and consequently every situation- is different. I am going off of my experience and some discussions with my Japanese friends and friends who have lengthy experience with the culture.

I’m sure people can find exceptions to what I am putting forth as general rules. Additionally, I am a man, so all of my understanding comes from the perspective of a man.I don’t just mean sex, but kissing and I think even hand holding. Attempting a kiss can make a Japanese person think you are only interested in sex or a physical relationship and not a serious or romantic relationship. For example, often a Westerner will want to kiss someone they are seeing and the Easterner doesn’t want to be kissed yet.The Westerner will think the Easterner isn’t interested in a relationship with him/her.Japan Cupid has connected thousands of Japanese singles with their matches from around the world, making it one of the most trusted Japanese dating sites.Whether you’re looking for a date or the love of your life, find them in a fun and secure environment on Japan Cupid.Started in 2005, Japan Cupid is part of the well-established Cupid Media network that operates over 30 reputable niche dating sites.

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