Dating someone with financial troubles

She’s looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all about herself, and give her butterflies…all on the first date. That man then makes a poor impression (understandably), and the date is chalked up to another “he just wasn’t right for me” experience.

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She insists he give and give with little or no reciprocity; after all, he’s the The Man and she’s his prize!

The 18 Year Old The 18 year old dates – sometimes a lot – but she doesn’t have relationships because “she doesn’t want the men who want her, and the men she wants don’t want her.” She doesn’t know what will make her happy and has not yet learned how to communicate and relate to grownup men.

(Guys, if you’re reading this…get in touch if you want to share!

) Just like we can meet the same types of guy over and over, men can do the same with women.

When he passes those tests or shows he has feelings for her, she questions it and might up the ante.

She picks fights, picks the wrong guys, or maneuvers relationships to end because it gives her control.

She gets stuck in affairs with men who never commit, and it’s often the nice guys who are interested in her who bear the brunt of her hurt and anger.

The Scaredy Cat he Scaredy Cat has been emotionally wounded by men in the past, and she can’t let go of it.

By default she clings to the same type of guy she wanted in high school or college. (See the Wow Me Woman below.) The nice, relationship-minded men get quickly discarded by the 18 year old.

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